I would need more information or a schematic.
Your psu can be what your coil need to have regarding voltage.
With the fuses it is a separate circuit.
The relais is a switch that is always on(if power is provided), up to the moment a fuse is blown(no power is provided on that line.), then the coil will not have the power anymore to keep itself in the "on" position and will disconnect the pack/battery.
Choose a relais that can handle your DCV output!, if you draw 10A take one of 15A, if draw 100A take a really big one of 125A minimum, overrate voltage aswell.
A relais is nothing more than a voltage regulated switch.
For the fuses it does not matter if they have dc or ac, max 10A and max 250V.
Basically, you can put them even in your line between the packs, without relais and extra psu, but i am not fond of that idea due to resistance.
I hope this will clarify things a bit.
sorry for my bad English, i hope someone will chime in with propper translation of this mater.
With best regards Igor